Mom is 79 and has clearly reached her final phase. As an only (adult) child I am having difficulty because I am losing my best friend. I've done all the upbeat things like good memories, chat and laugh with her, etc. However, the pain in my interiror is unbearable as I see in her eyes her fears and sorrow to leave me alone. I am fine externally and handling things ok but inside I am falling apart. I am anxious and frightened of what is to come. Any help is appreciated. Thank you.
I know all too well what you are going through. I lost my mother last week to lung cancer and the pain of that loss is almost unbareable. I took care of her in my home until the end and that is the richest blessing you can have or do. At times was difficult but would not change it for anything. Just make her happy and try not to show your frustation with her for things she cannot help. I did at times and now my heart is broken because of that. I now would give anything to have her back just to pamper and baby her a little more. Make sure you tell her everything you think you need to and let her know that you will be ok and for her to not feel guilty about leaving. Please do better than I did. I will never forgive myself for not being a little more patient..
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